Hi Jennifer,

I was wondering your opinion on using names with non-traditional spellings. My name is spelt in a non-traditional way: Karlee instead of Carly. I am almost always called Kaylee or Callie when first meeting people; not to mention I have to spell out my first name or have it spelt wrong every time. Even after I have told people how to spell my name they still spell it wrong (even family members). Honestly, it can be a bit frustrating at times.

I know my case isn’t as drastic as some such as Emmalie for Emily or Cidnee for Sydney. Just to clarify I’m not against changing a letter or two, and I’m not saying everybody has to be the same either. I just think sometimes people go too far with it. I would love to hear your insight on this. Thanks so much!

Sincerely,
Carly with a K and two EE’s

Dear Karlee,

Thank you for validating my stance on “Kreatyve” spellings. I think it puts an undue burden on the child, having to spell their name for people the rest of their lives!

I have heard from some that having a Kreatyve spelling of a common name kind-of “grows” on you. More adults are accepting of having a Kreatyve name than kids. It makes them feel unique.

However, I still do not recommend it for all the reasons you have stated, above.

Sincerely,
Jennifer

p.s. You can always legally change the spelling of your name when you turn 18!